A reflection on why I blog, what I write about, and why being a generalist matters in a world that rewards specialists and quick takes.
Category: Life
Madeira: The Honeymoon That Didn’t Need Beaches
Discover why Madeira is the perfect honeymoon escape without beaches. Wine, levadas, festivals, and views that make every moment unforgettable.
How Widowhood Changed Me
A personal story of losing a partner during COVID, navigating widowhood in her 30s, healing through grief, solo travel, and learning to live – and love – again. A raw survival story.
Finland’s UX Is Emotional Bandwidth
There are things I love about Finland and things that quietly drive me insane. Some days, I feel completely at home here. Other days, I feel like I was born in the wrong country, in the wrong emotional climate, surrounded by too many polite silences and not enough verbal confirmation that people care about each…
Quick Reads for Busy People: What People Get Wrong About Being a Jack of All Trades
They call us “Jack of all trades” like it’s a warning. But here’s the thing – they usually forget the rest of the phrase. This quick read unpacks where the label really comes from, why it got twisted into an insult, and what people still don’t get about being multi-talented in a specialist-obsessed world. Spoiler: we’re not the problem. We’re the glue.
What I’m Actually Good At (But Can’t Prove Easily)
Most people are quick to name what they’re good at. Certificates. Titles. Skills you can measure. I have some of those, sure—but the things I’m actually best at? You won’t find them listed anywhere. They’re not flashy. They don’t come with metrics. And they rarely get acknowledged until someone else drops the ball. What I’m…
Barbie and How “Ridiculous” Dreams Change the World
I didn’t own many Barbies growing up. My parents—practical as ever, some might call them “bohemian literature types” – opted for books, movies, and outdoor adventures over plastic dolls with dream mansions. They figured those would be better for me. But of course, I found ways around their well-meaning plans. I’d escape to friends’ apartments…
The Seven Wonders of the Modern World: The Real Masterpieces
A hundred years ago, people dreamed of a future full of flying cars, cities on the Moon, and cures for all diseases. It was a hopeful, optimistic vision of progress. But here we are in the 2020s, and, well, it’s safe to say things didn’t go quite as planned. That utopian dream? It’s been replaced…
Wrapping Up 2024
As 2024 is coming to its end, it’s hard to believe how much has happened in just one year. It’s been a year of excitement, new experiences, creativity. From big milestones to art and great travel to parties it has truly been great one. As we step into 2025, it’s hard to ignore the strange…
From Abba to Öky: A Journey Through Nordic Words
Some people see the Nordics as a utopia—a perfect place to live because of the high quality of life, strong social systems, and beautiful nature. They admire how Nordic countries prioritize education, healthcare, and equality, believing these factors contribute to a happy society. For them, the Nordics represent a harmonious balance between modern life, work,…
Views of Helsinki Through My Lens: A Photographic Tribute to Finland’s Capital
Chances of getting lost in Helsinki are unlikely, but just like lightning striking the same place twice, they’re never zero. Unlike many bustling metropolises, Helsinki has a navigable layout with well-organized streets and an precise public transportation system, making navigating the city refreshingly straightforward. The train journey from Helsinki Airport to the city center takes…
Moment of Realization: How the 90s Are Closer to the 2020s Than the 60s Were to the 90s
The gap between the 90s and the 2020s feels much smaller than the difference between the 90s and the 60s. This is largely due to the rapid advancements in technology and evolvement of culture over the past thirty years. Innovations like the internet, social media, and smartphones have made the world feel more connected than…
Does My Bum Look Big in This? – A Quick Overview of the Art of Comedy
Comedy has always been a mirror to society, reflecting its absurdities and pushing boundaries. Yet, in today’s landscape, the very essence of comedy is under threat. The fear of causing offense, the pressure to conform, and the looming specter of being canceled cast a shadow over every joke. Gone are the days when comedians could…
Oh baby, we’ll be old, and think of all the stories that we could have told
In life, we sometimes encounter crossroads that challenge us to confront our deepest fears or embrace new possibilities. These moments kind of defines us -they test our resilience, push us beyond our comfort zones, and ultimately shape the essence of who we are. My late-father had a deep appreciation for cultures, believing that exploring them…
Project photowall – 42 images on my wall
As Karl Lagerfeld, an iconic fashion designer once said “What I like about photographs is that they capture a moment that’s gone forever, impossible to reproduce.” For the past years or so I have been an avid amateur photographer, or maybe I should call myself an iphotographer. I don’t like any fancy or heavy cameras,…
Throwback to 1996
Yo, I’ll tell you what I want, what I really, really want. So tell me what you want, what you really, really want. Can one ever forget this song? When the Spice Girls’ Wannabe hit the airwaves in 1996, I was 10 years old. A year before, Finland had won its first gold medal in…